Sleepless.in.SF

Giving an unbiased male's perspective on dating, relationships, and love.
Can you imagine a world where everything is simple, just black or white, as easy as saying yes or no? We can only imagine because nothing is that simple, no decisions are easy- even the everyday choices can seem like life or death sometimes. Honestly, when was the last time you struggled to order something off the menu? Probably not more than a couple of days ago, am I right? When was the last time you couldn’t decide what to wear to go out? Probably just the other day. Like I said, no decisions are easy. Even the most simple of routines and actions can cause doubts and questions sometimes.  The same goes for complex world of dating, relationships, and the precarious “L” word that so many are scared to let roll off their tongue. It’s not easy, nor should it be. What would be the fun in that right? But it could be easier. Sometimes it just takes an unbiased, objective view from an outsider who can put things really into perspective. How many times have you received advice from your “friends” just to realize they didn’t really have your best interest in mind? One time too many. Well, here’s what I can do for you. I will put things into perspective, the best way I can… through my own mistakes and experiences. Why trust me and my opinions? The answer is why not. If Dr. Phil can do it with his  accent and no hair, I think I could do just as good if not better. So readers, enjoy my uncensored thoughts and opinions of situations and questions that my friends** seek my counsel for because I’m sure these same questions have crossed you mind before. ** The names provided in this blog have been fabricated to protect the true identity of these people. Please respect that.

Can you imagine a world where everything is simple, just black or white, as easy as saying yes or no? We can only imagine because nothing is that simple, no decisions are easy- even the everyday choices can seem like life or death sometimes. Honestly, when was the last time you struggled to order something off the menu? Probably not more than a couple of days ago, am I right? When was the last time you couldn’t decide what to wear to go out? Probably just the other day. Like I said, no decisions are easy. Even the most simple of routines and actions can cause doubts and questions sometimes.  The same goes for complex world of dating, relationships, and the precarious “L” word that so many are scared to let roll off their tongue. It’s not easy, nor should it be. What would be the fun in that right? But it could be easier. Sometimes it just takes an unbiased, objective view from an outsider who can put things really into perspective. How many times have you received advice from your “friends” just to realize they didn’t really have your best interest in mind? One time too many. Well, here’s what I can do for you. I will put things into perspective, the best way I can… through my own mistakes and experiences. Why trust me and my opinions? The answer is why not. If Dr. Phil can do it with his  accent and no hair, I think I could do just as good if not better. So readers, enjoy my uncensored thoughts and opinions of situations and questions that my friends** seek my counsel for because I’m sure these same questions have crossed you mind before.

** The names provided in this blog have been fabricated to protect the true identity of these people. Please respect that.